Michael Bono is absolutely right Mike.
One of my favorite quotes: “If no reaction, no results.” Unfortunately, the phrase is not mine, it is by a Norwegian colleague who in turn probably heard it often pronounce to her mother (also electrologist). You must understand that since Dr. Michel invented the Electrolysis, more than 130 years ago, have been written and said many things, many are true, and many false too. Perhaps with the intention of preserving this practice to a group who are not physicians. Or to avoid customer panic. The truth is that many euphemisms have been used. Very few colleagues have had the audacity to call everything by its name, Michael is one of them.
I’m glad you do not give up, if you really want to get rid of the hairs. I would have chosen a IBP 006 Long for those hairs. This would not prevent a lot of swelling but maybe (just maybe) there would be a little less post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation.
You’re young, and youth is a synonym of impatient. Your fear of a big reaction may have made your electrologist is kept below the required parameters for the hair to slide easily. When she tried to be more effective, you have expressed your concern about side effects. Yes, I agree, the problem has been a complete lack of information about how the process unfolds in this sensitive area.