Hi Everyone!
Everybody’s mentioned some very good points and I’ll try to comment on a few of them. Alicia, you’re absolutely right that women had a long and hard fight for equal rights and are still fighting that battle but I don’t think that we’re going to see any kind of “movement” for men with smooth legs or bodies! I think the majority of men who do shave their legs, probably wouldn’t want to draw attention to themselves–the same probably holds true for men who enter traditionally “female” jobs–they just quietly go about their ways and don’t really attract public attention. Italianguy, you brought up some excellent points–the only way that I think the general public will become more accepting is for the media to feature more men with smooth legs or for Philips/Remington to run commericals which show men shaving their legs and getting positive comments from women–once the public is bombarded with this, it will become more mainstream.
Before moving to Europe, I also lived in NW Ohio and I could agree with you that people can be rude there but after living abroad, “rudeness” has taken on a new meaning. Customer service and other civilities really don’t exist in the North American sense of the word but many Europeans would say that American “friendliness” is false and driven by the sense of getting a tip. If they don’t like you or don’t like their job, they won’t try to be courteous to you–this is kinda weird because they also depend on tips, albeit less than their American counter-parts.
One thing that really gets to me though is that people tend to stare more in Europe and especially, in Poland. The population is pretty homogenous here and men do have certain facial characteristics, so if you look a bit “different,” people might look at you in curiosity or disdain–in Poland, this is largely due to historic reasons and the suffering caused by foreign powers.
Shaving legs probably draws more attention to yourself–I would agee with Josh that it’s mainly men who make rude comments–I don’t know if they have some kind of “radar” and can single out men with smooth legs but it’s truly disturbing. Poland is generally a traditional Catholic country and intolerant of homosexuals–there have been some ugly gay bashings by groups of young thugs who consider themselves to be “patriots” and “defenders of morality” and they got away with very light sentences. These groups are also racist and xenophobic and aren’t too picky about their targets. This worries me a lot–these guys could bash someone for looking “gay or foreign”–I wouldn’t want to run into a group of them in a park or anywhere for that matter! Fortunately, this has never happened but some middle-aged men made a few disparging comments while I was walking in a park once last summer. Another time, a woman on the beach pointed towards me (I think she was telling her husband that she saw a man with smooth legs because he turned around and stared at me). I also let my leg hairs “grow out” a bit and had the “trimmed” look that Josh wrote about, but I guess it looked “trimmed” and I remember a mixed group laughing at me once while wearing shorts.
Alicia, RJC and everyone else is right that one should live their lives the way you want (and not let such jokers dictate what you do) but I don’t know why we have to contend with such pig-headedness and intolerance. It is the 21st century after all and people should have better things to do then look and make rude comments about the amount of hair on a man’s legs! It’s really strange that men with smooth legs would draw so much attention–I don’t know if people (other men) are really looking at each other’s legs, or if it just registers unconsciously with them. What do the rest of you think???
Regards,
smoothlover