I donât shave, but wax almost my entire body⌠Your question seems to be more about being hairless than the method used to get to that state, so here is my take on itâŚ
It is personal choice, just like you can decide to grow a beard or not, to have long hair on your head or not, to stay trim and toned, or to be fat and flabbyâŚ
A lot of people do it for specific purposes such as sports, or body building contests, and I think that as these people have a good body, they have a better body image and it is natural for them to want smooth skin to increase their satisfaction with âtheirâ lookâŚ
Others do it because they donât like hair⌠or have a professional reason to do so⌠I used to be a catalogue model way back and I was told by my agency I would get a lot more work if I had the hairless look⌠(and with a light tan and no hair, work rolled in) - so that was my initiation to total body hair removal⌠after that, I continued because I like the look and feel⌠I know a surgeon who has his arms waxed because he finds it easier to scrub up⌠I still ride my mountain bike, so I suppose I have some excuses or reasons if other people feel compelled to categorise me and question why I do such things⌠It is for their benefit to be a âsports smoothieâ, rather than trying to justify to them any other reason⌠I donât feel compelled to justify myself, but human nature is what it isâŚ
It comes down to your own body image⌠some people like the smooth look and donât even give a second thought to the removal of all hair, some hate particular hair and want just a more ânormalâ look, without going totally smoothâŚ
People get images from many places, and often they try to live up to them⌠if you could look like a supermodel does, you would be one⌠us ordinary folks should just come to terms with it within ourselves⌠I donât care what people think (though I mostly get positive vibes) I care what I think, and I am happy to be hairless⌠I make the effort to look better than my ânatural selfâ - it is no worse than ironing your clothes, brushing your teeth or anything else that shows you care about yourself, you have a positive self /body image, and you are prepared to make an effort to look good⌠and feel good about yourself⌠How many times have we read people on this board who hate their hair, and have real problems in relationships or other social settings because of the hair⌠Leg hair on males is not as bad to most as upper lip or chin hair on females, but they are all about our self image, and that is what allows us to go out in the world and be who we want to be⌠if hair is holding you back from your true self, then do something about itâŚ
Shave, wax, whatever⌠hairless is best IMHOâŚ
David
[ April 10, 2003, 05:32 AM: Message edited by: IHH ]