Hi Josh
Having coarse dark hair on my legs is what started me trimming as well. I have blonde hair, so the contrast didn’t suit me at all. If my leg hair had turned out relativly light and fine like a lot of blonde haired guy’s do then it may have been different. As it was from about 16 onwards it was actually embarressing to wear shorts and I got the looks and comments from the opposite angle. Trimming made a big difference in my high school days because then shaving was not on either, but it looked a lot better.
After leaving school I shaved once as I spoke about earlier in other posts at 19. I should have stuck with it then because nobody noticed. My skin and hair colouration suit shaved legs I think, because today it is my normal accepted look. I agree that trimming is your best answer, since you tried shaving and that didn’t work socially. Like RJC says lasor will probably be better and save you time trimming. I have had some lasor and this has made my leg hair a bit thinner and cut down on shaving time.
Regards
Stuart