Be polite and have a calm manner of approach is rule number one. State your concerns, with picture in hand. There is not an electrologist on this earth that has not been over zealous. We are only human.
The correct response from the electrologist would be to thank you for your feedback and reassure you that they will change something - find a new recipe, use a different probe, try another modality, work 15 minutes and evaluate their new approach, try some refrigerated cold pressed quality aloe vera gel immediately after treatment, not work on the area every week.
This is why many new electrologists quit. This scares them to death because they don’t want to hurt anyone and they don’t know how to get tough hair like that to glide out, without the skin looking angry. If it is an established, credentialed electrologist with all those fancy alphabet letters behind their name, they may be defensive and dismissive. In this case, look onward. You want someone that will be honest with you when your precious lip presents as a normal skin healing reaction or whether it is over treatment. It’s okay to admit it was over treatment, but what matters after that is an attitude on the electrologists part not to repeat it over and over again. Change the plan, observe and have compassion for what the client is feeling about this. This means a lot to the person lying on the table. If you don’t feel the electrologist is trying to work with you well enough, then move on.
Now, back to your lip. PLEASE do not have anymore treatments until it is all healed. Don’t pick off any scabs. I get sick of hearing myself say this, but I would use refrigerated aloe vera cold pressed gel. Put gob on the area and let it marinate. When it gets dry and flakey, rinse gently with cold water and reapply. Try for three days and nights and see if it helps. I really think it will heal well, but I’m not 100%. Just get it back to normal. Eat nutritious whole foods, too. Vitamin C type foods are good for wound healing.