I’m reminded, again, why I won’t take "small cases.’ The biological fact is that a tweezed or treated hair cannot "grow back in 2-weeks.’ (Okay, maybe there was an emerging anagen hair in the follicle that popped-out in 2-weeks. That’s possible; but rare.)
But the point is that some pitiable electrologist is going to spend hours explaining one damned hair to a disgruntled client. ONE HAIR! The "small jobs people’ usually feel cheated and frustrated for the entire treatment duration … which is always AT LEAST a year’s time of treatment. Repeat: it is going to take a minimum of a year for final results. But DAMN … an entire year of KVETCHING?
I won’t do it. I will, however, clear-off a man’s entire back, or remove an entire beard with never any complaints … NONE. Never happened! But the "one hair’ kvetching-client, with hand-holding that requires hours of explanation? It feels like punishment! The "Chinese water torture?’
True Story. A very lovely lady started her "small chin job’ that she’d been tweezing for 20-years. I told her it will take at least a year … and don’t "harass me,’ because that’s the deal. She agreed, but she did the "I have to have a treatment immediately, or I’m going to tweeze’ phone calls (usually at 9:00 PM in the evening). She continued to tweeze between treatments and constantly voiced her dissatisfaction by saying, "how long this is going to take?’
After about 3-months, she said (again) "When is this EVER going to end?’ I got this at EVERY treatment, "I only have a couple hairs, why do they keep growing back?’ So, finally I said, TODAY!’ You are finished TODAY! I wrote a check for her entire treatment expenditures and handed it to her. I was very nice indeed, but again told her why I can’t do these types of jobs. She already knew I didn’t want to do her case. We parted friends.
I simply could not take the crap any more. Nicely, at this "advanced age’ I don’t care. I know what I’m able to accomplish and it is NOT MAGIC! Electrolysis is not magic.
I will never tell the client "what they WANT to hear.’ You have to be totally straight with every client and let the facts determine what you’re doing and what you can realistically accomplish. If they can’t do it … don’t start; it’s not worth it.
Here’s a suggestion for my "beaten-down’ electrologists. If a new client says, "I only have a few hairs that I tweeze every day or so,’ DON’T do it honey! If they "only have a few hairs,’ they already expect it to be a SMALL job. They will not accept your "endless explanations’ and won’t even hear you. No electrolysis procedure is a "small job!’