Let me apologize in advance for my long, long post. I know I will be losing a few readers along the way, but I have so much hair angst pent up inside of me that I can’t seem to be brief!
I have been reading on here fore a few weeks with a thousand questions popping through my head. Now I am finally going to try to organize my thoughts and put something down.
Here’s my background. I’m a 35 year old female and have been hairy all my life. My earliest memory of being uncomfortable with my hair was when I was 6. When I was 9, I started bleaching my upper lip hair (yes, I know, it’s a moustache) and I haven’t stopped since (so a good 26 years of Sally Hansen and Jolen). When I was 14 I did electrolysis treatments for a while (possibly about 6 months?) on my upper lip and some rogue chin hairs. I did it again for another 6 months or so when I was 17. Neither of my electrologists ever talked about hair growth cycles or schedules or any such things, as I remember. I think I would usually have 15 or 30 minute appointments about once per week. I never got full clearance, but it did look better for a while. Now, however, you would never know that I had made any attempts to get rid of any of my facial hair.
As I have gotten older, my facial and body hair has gotten worse. I now bleach my upper lip, chin, and cheeks every 2 or 3 weeks (and it usually looks really bad by the time I get around to doing it). For years, I fantasized that laser hair removal was going to be the answer to my all my facial hair problems, but now that I am ready to take action, I’ve started my research and discovered that laser is not recommended for my mostly thin, soft (though not at all sparse), female peach-fuzzy facial hair.
So now I am thinking I will try electrolysis again. My biggest concern is that this not drag on forever or consume my life, and I want to find a way to do it that is as inconspicuous as possible. I don’t want to have to walk around work or my kids’ daycare with a red, swollen, blotchy, or scabby face and/or hide inside all summer.
So I think my questions have to do with how to minimize the temporary outward signs of electrolysis and get this over with as quickly as possible. Would it be best to do the marathon method of flash thermolysis? Could real reduction be achieved if I just go for marathon clearance sessions spaced about 6 weeks apart for 9 months? If I did marathon sessions on my upper lip and chin with a really skilled practitioner (I’m in Toronto and would consider driving to Buffalo to see James, if we would have me), how long would I have to hide after each treatment before I could show my face to the world? Or could I maximize results while minimizing the number and length of sessions by doing the shaving method where I shave 2 or 3 days before a session so that only active hairs are treated each time (my thinking is that I would have less redness and swelling b/c fewer hairs would be treated per session, but they would be the right hairs)? Or instead of shaving, could I just bleach 2 to 3 days before and then just target the hairs with dark roots?