Rotary epilators or waxing?

i am a guy with hair problem.

I have used epilators before. it is good because it takes the hair from the roots causing it to grow thinner and it takes longer for it to come back. However, it is more work (which I dont mind), but also hair ingrown comes and causes problems to my skin.

I wonder if going somewhere for professional waxing is better when it comes to ingrowns? also, sometimes it will take only a week after epilators and hair will come back…is it the same when it comes to waxing?