Hi,
I’m a male, in my late 20s not from the US. I have white skin and very dark hair.
I apologize for the long post, but I would like to tell my story before asking questions.
Starting from my early 20s I slowly started noticing that I have hair growing in places where most people have either barely visible vellus hair or no hair at all.
First of all, I started getting a little more hair on the bottom of my neck area, so that my beard (which ends at about the Adam’s apple area) seemed to connect with my chest hair. The density of the hair in this area is much less than the beard area above it, but it is a nuisance, and very unaesthetic. But this is not the main reason for writing this post.
What’s more alarming to me was the fact that I started getting small black hairs on my nose and I noticed that the hairs on my ears (on the lobule, and on the rim of the ear… called the helix I believe) are also becoming black and visible (even though they’re thin).
In recent years these hairs have gotten worse (longer, more visible), and they’ve been killing my self esteem and causing me lots of anxiety.
To make things worse, last year I was on medication for about 2 weeks (it was Concerta, a form of Ritalin), and I noticed something rather strange on my second week. I noticed that the skin on my forehead looked strange, it’s as if it was a little less smooth, more wrinkly. At first, I didn’t understand what was happening, but one day I looked closer and I realized that there was barely visible very thin vellus hairs all over my forehead. I now realized why the skin looked wrinkly, it’s probably the hair follicles that are giving me this impression.
I panicked because I thought it might be the meds that are somehow accelerating hair growth (they’re stimulants after all) so I stopped taking them… but I can’t be certain that they’re the real cause of this, since hair loss is actually one of the side effects.
Anyway, it appears that I’m starting to see a small patch of small black hairs starting to pop out in the middle of my forehead (I think I can see about 30 of them). This is what finally broke me and I realized that I need help ASAP. I need to get my hair problem fixed, or otherwise my anxiety will paralyze me and won’t let me leave the house.
I found an electrologist nearby and I want to pay her a visit soon, but I don’t know anything about electrolysis and I have a lot of questions (and fears) that I would love to have answered here by the experts before I make my first appointment.
These are the questions I was thinking of asking the electrologist. I would really appreciate if you could give me answers I should expect to hear from her, and any suggestions to improve/modify the question list:
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How many years of experience doing Electrolysis do you have?
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What technology do you use? [Note: I don’t know much about this, but I’d love to hear more on what technology is better]
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Do I get a private needle for the whole treatment period? [Do I really need to ask this?]
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What can I expect after a first treatment/clearance?
Will the just grow back like it usually does after a shave? -
On average, how many treatments does it take to treat an area such as the nose/ear and usually how far apart are the appointments?
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Is the hair removal really permanent? That is, hair that was removed will never grow back, and that if I see hairs growing back in that region those must be new hairs that weren’t previously treated?
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Must appointments be spaced in regular intervals, or can I come back whenever I see some hairs growing in the treated region? Because I really wouldn’t want to be walking around with long hair growing out of my nose/ears.
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This is related to the previous question. Can I shave the treated area before the next appointment in case I see hairs growing?
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Will there always be temporary scabs in the area? Are they for every follicle removed? And how long until they’re gone?
That is, if I get treated on Thursday, will the scab wear off by Sunday? -
Whom do you mostly treat? Men or women?
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Can you treat almost any facial area with electrolysis?
Can I treat the nose? Can I treat the ears (lobe + outer ear and maybe the targi as well)?
Can I treat that small area on the forehead that have a few barely visible black hairs? -
I have read many horror stories on the Internet of people who claimed that treatment caused hair to become thicker and more prominent, or the density of hair increased, or they got permanent scars.
I’m sure that for every problematic case there might be tens of people that had a successful treatment, but I want to make sure that I won’t end up being in the problematic group.
How can we plan my treatment as to minimize any potential damage in case the treatment won’t work for me? Maybe we can start in a place that I shave anyway (the lower neck region), so that in case the hair keeps growing I will just continue shaving it?
[Note: I was thinking of asking for a free “test treatment” on a small area, but I’m not sure if that is OK to ask or not]
That is all. Sorry for the wall of text!
Edit: By the way, from my registration date you can see that I’ve been thinking of seeking treatment and posting here a long time ago ;-).