Hello! This is my first post on this forum (although have been reading HairTell posts for quite a few months!) so I apologize if I’m not posting at the right place or the right way!
Although I did find a lot of information on this site about my problem, I have a few questions that still need answering.
Background: 35 y.o. female, type II skin. Light brown hair, dark-blond to brown body hair, growing in all directions. Keratosis pilosis on arms and bum. Never been pregnant, not overweight, nothing similar to affect hormones. In recent years I’ve developed darker hairs and a male growing pattern (nipples, belly, legs and bum) after a medical error that, without getting into details, disturbed my hormones. I do not have PCOS. Still waiting for more tests but I think I’ve got my hormones under control naturally now. Boyfriend is relieved! haha!
Over the past few years I did:
-Laser (diode): Of course it failed, as I have light-ish hair and pale reddish skin, but 6 years ago I just trusted their recommendations blindly…
-IPL: 3 treatments and tech still could not see a single hair react. IPL had been recommended to me by a dermatologist - and she was supervising the work!
-Electrolysis: Several treatments and clearings over the course of 6 months. I had Thermolysis as tech said Blend would take forever on my legs to see a clearing and well, don’t think she was very patient anyway. Problem is, whenever I didn’t go every 2-3 weeks for touch ups (I was travelling a lot so not always possible) I would get an attack of ingrown hairs (hundreds at a time - and yes I’ve tried TendSkin and all these, exfoliants, moisturisers, etc.). I got scarring from treatment and from removing ingrowns. I had to stop as I moved to the UK a year ago. Since then, skin has recovered, but hairs are still there in similar quantity, and anything I do (shaving, etc.) now creates ingrown hairs like crazy. It seems hairs have gone slightly finer (not that much) and because of that cannot pierce the skin. Even electrolysis on my nipples/belly causes ingrowns now. I also have hairs on my bum (and yes, I sit on it quite a lot during the day for work!) that are beyond ingrown and just make a huge bump without anything I could pluck or even a pore I could “dig out”. I showed the doctor (some actually look like black/purple moles now, 5-6mm wide!) and he confirmed they were hairs, and said they would never come out?!???
So my questions are as follows:
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What type of electrolysis would have the best results to destroy fine hairs in the least number of treatments possible in order to avoid these ingrown “attacks”? I’m assuming that in this case it would be better to go slower and clear less area at once, but that the patches cleared would be cleared for good?
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What machine would be most appropriate, if any? Any ideas on what I should specify to my future electrologist in terms of settings, needles, etc?
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I’m assuming these black “moles” of ingrown hair (are those tombstones?) are caused by my fine ingrowns combined with keratosis pilosis on my bum. Anything that could zap them even faster/forever? Galvanic!?!??
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Will these ingrown hairs my doc said would be there forever, really be there forever? I don’t trust doctors anymore! It seems I can even feel the hair there and it’s swollen, but it’s been over a year now and nothing seems to want to come out.
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A few months back I stumbled on a clinic website mentioning an FDA approved topical product used in combination with laser hair removal or IPL that, once applied to the skin, darkened the hair pigment inside the skin to make it possible to zap light hair. Did I dream this, I can no longer find the link!? I cannot seem to find any reference to it anywhere, although the AAD.org mentions on their Laser Hair Removal page : “Lighter-colored hair is least responsive, but topical medications can be used in an effort to increase effectiveness.”
Any ideas are appreciated. I’ve spent thousands of dollars on hair removal, I haven’t worn a skirt or shorts in almost 7 years now, let alone this hair everywhere is seriously affecting my confidence and to a certain extent my relationship! I need to find a solution (that works!) and stick to it so I can hopefully spend a summer wearing something else than jeans!
Truly sorry, I tried to keep it short but obviously failed…!!! Thanking you in advance for any replies. If anyone happens to know a good electrologist in Exeter, Devon, please let me know!