On getting ruined early on: There was this 18-year-old kid who broke his back in a surfing accident (a long-boarder lost his board on a 15-foot day at Rincon).
The kid wore a back brace for a year … lots of pain … and medication (including cortisone that was, in the day, used indiscriminately). The kid lost his head hair and grew hair on his back. Medication caused? Who knows; maybe? Luckily, no surgery … but it was a close call.
That kid was me! … and I survived all of it. And, made a career out of it. Like they say, “If life hands you lemons … make lemonade out of it!” NOW … stop your kvetching! You’re beginning to sound like Amber Heard! Do I have to come over there and “smack you a good one?”