I am 20 years old (female) and have been struggling with unwanted hair for years. It all started in middle school when some girls who didn’t like me decided to make fun of me and tell my crush that I had a mustache. Up until then I had never noticed it. I then became obsessed with getting rid of any unwated hair. Little did I know that shaving would only make matters worse. Over the years I started to get thick coarse hair on my neck, side burns, chest, and breasts. It is my biggest insecurity. lately I have been plucking but I’m left with tons of ingrowns. I wont let my boyfriend see me naked with the lights on because I’m so embarrassed. I’ve developed scars on my breasts from all the plucking and I wont go to the beach because of how ugly my bikini line looks with bumps, ingrown hairs, and scarring. Sometimes Ill go days not leaving my house to let the hair grow so that i can get rid of it again. I wont have sex with my boyfriend unless all the hair is gone but I cant shave too often because the hair is so thick and it curls and my skin just cant take constant shaving. He’s starting to think that I’m not sexually attracted to him and I can’t bring myself to tell him the truth.
The hair that was once peach fuzz on my cheeks and under my chin is now starting to get thicker and I can’t take it anymore. I have gone to the doctor and there is nothing medical causing my problem. I have decided to get rid of it once and for all.
My main priority is my facial hair and breasts. I was thinking laser hair removal at first but I’m afraid that it won’t give me the permanent results I want and that it’ll make the thin hairs thicker like I’ve heard it can.
I found an electrologist in my area (Tampa fl). Her name is De Jonge Noemi Fernandez and I was wondering if anyone on here knows anything about her. All of the reviews I found were excellent and she has over 20 years of experience.
I can post pictures later on but I plucked it all out today.
Questions:
Do you normally pay per session or do you pay for it all at once?
How often do you go?
Would it be a good idea to do laser first on bikini to minimize thick hair then do electrolysis for hair left over?
Do you pay per session or per area?