It will get better after more treatments, once you get rid of the coarse hair. Using EMLA will help for sure versus not using it. I didn’t use anything on my first treatment with GentleLASE and it was not fun at all. I switched clinics to one with Apogee Elite and she forced me to use numbing cream which is good. I still felt it but it wasn’t unbearable, wasn’t pleasant but you want it to hurt so it’s killing the hair. She had the settings fairly high and said without the cream I wouldn’t have been able to do it. You honestly can’t expect pain free laser though, think of what it’s doing, it’s frying the hair follicle and destroying it so it never grows back, you can’t expect that not to hurt!
It will get better though and 100% the more coarse the hair the more it hurts. I did my 5th session on my abdomen using Apogee with no numbing cream. I don’t have much hair there, the more coarse hair is in the middle then it gets really fine to the edge. She started on the edge and I felt nothing so she upped it. Still felt nothing so she upped it more and told me its because the hair is so fine and not much is there but when it hits the coarse hair I’ll feel it. She kept it on that setting and as she moved more to the centre of my stomach, it got more painful. Right in the centre of it it was very strong, not excruciating but it definitely did hurt, so I can guarantee the more coarse the more pain.
She also said that most places on your body have around 500 hair follicles per square centimetre but on the face it’s double around 1000 so face is always more painful.