Hello everyone, new member here, i have read quite a few threads on laser beard removal to try keep me from being too ignorant on the matter, but would appreciate your input, thanks…
I’m a 30 year old male from the UK, i have pale skin and very dense, dark coarse beard hair. I have always hated shaving.
As the title suggests - i suffer from a rare form of folliculitis, here’s some background…
About 7 years ago i underwent major bowel surgery for a condition i suffered with for 4 yrs called Ulcerative Colitis (similar to crohns disease) the surgery went well and happy to say i have been very healthy ever since. About 1 year post surgery i started having problems with boils, ingrowns, pustules etc in my beard area, and it has gradually gotten worse over the years…
Before i describe the condition i need to point out i have tried every shaving method out there to no avail.
I have now reached a point where i have become depressed with this condition, my self esteem and confidence is at an all time low, and it has pretty much taken over my life, i have developed a slight OCD with it, and it takes me hours to get ready on a morning because of it as i use a beard trimmer but have to be ridiculously careful…
I also often cancel nights out with friends, dates with women etc because if it flares up i just don’t feel confident to leave the house (although alot of the time i just grin and bear it)
The condition presents itself as several boils, pustules, spots - or whatever you wanna call them all over my beard area, the main areas affected area my neck, lower cheeks, and jawline…my moustache area is never affected and my chin / goatee area only mildy affected…and at any one time i have on average 4/5 on my face…it is never clear…
This is where it gets strange…most of the time i need to drain these pustules, and when i do usually an extremely thick black hair pops out, it turns out that they are not single hairs but actually a bundle of 15-20 hairs stuck together that have come out of 1 follicle, wrapped together at one end in a white jelly like substance…serious alien type stuff!!!
Of course then i get blood, redness, scarring, and the worst of all - bald patches left behind…these bald patches eventually grow some thinner hair after about 3-4 months, but still stay noticibly patchy…
So in a strange way it already looks like i have had a dodgy laser treatment job with the patches, i even have people ask what is wrong with my face from time to time…
And it is just never ending…when 1 pustule heals - i wake up with 2-3 fresh new ones…
Anyway, i have tried every topical treatment under the sun, every antibiotic etc, nothing works…only temporarily relief when on Oxytetracycline…only to become resistant and it return after the course anyway…
So after seeing several dermatologists that sent me away with meds, i finally asked my bowel surgeon if he could recommend the best dermatologist in the area…
This derm seemed a cut above the rest and showed genuine intrigue and concern for me…by the end of my appointment he concluded that there is no meds left to try, he was also baffled to what my condition was, his only guess was that it was 1 of 3 things…
- folliculitis decalvans
- pili multigemini
- auto immune disorder
The auto immune disorder would make sense due to the fact Colitis is auto immune, and i took immune-suppresants for a period of time all them years ago…
So, he suggested laser hair removal…he works in a top end private hospital who actually offer the treatment, i believe he and technicians peform this in their clinic…
It seems like very a professional set up, but will obviously look into it more in that regard.
I’m set for a test patch in 2 weeks time, he told me i’m a good candidate due to my skin and hair colour, all i remember is that he uses a YAG laser, and i will find out more for you all in terms of joules, spot size etc after the test patch…as i found this forum after the consultation…
So, i guess i’m just wanting to know what to expect? I don’t know if he is gonna aim for a reduction or a full clearance?
I have read alot of horror stories online, but have also read alot of good things on here, and to be quite honest i’m at a stage where anything would be better than my current situation…
I’d be happy if i could shave easier, and not everyday…but equally happy if i didn’t need to shave at all…
I was also going to ask you guys - i would like to keep some facial hair, and my moustache and goatee area could manage without being touched, then at least if the rest of my face is hair free there is still some stubble to stop me looking like a baby…
Can they do this? i heard guys can have their beards sculpted…
I will try post a pic of my face tomorrow…
Sorry for the length, i just needed to explain it all as it seems a unique situation…
Kind regards
Johnny