Hi all I’m glad I found this place, it’s been interesting and nice to know I’m not the only man embarrased by excess body hair out there.
I used to love sports and was very good at one and even had a career option with it, but found from 17/18 years old onwards that I was just getting more and more hair on my chest arms and legs (and hair on my ass too?!?!).
Eventually I started avoiding the changing room and the gym and the beach on holiday and it basically put me under severe pressure as I had always defined myself as a physical active out-doorsy type. Even worse is the fact that people consider me to have a “good physique” and a “handsome” face and my friends & family don’t understand why it’s been so long since I’ve had a girlfriend they probably think I’m gay LOL. I just don’t have the confidence to take my clothes off, I’m ashamed to even say it even though I’ve done nothing wrong! It’s not my fault!!
Anyway, now I’ve gotten a better paid job I will definately be looking into hair reduction/removal with laser treatment here in the UK as I have light skin and dark body hair. Also I don’t mind if I still have some hair (in fact in the past when I have shaved my chest for example, I didn’t like the complete baldness). I think some hair is not a problem so I don’t care about total removal just a reduction to a “reasonable” amount, it would change my life if it worked and that’s no exaggeration…
It feels good to say all that I have not talked about it with anyone, not even my own mother. Incidentally I know of not one single person in my family with this curse, which really sucks but at least this makes it less likely I will pass this on to any children I have?? I don’t know much about genetics though