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#1

i’m not new to these forums because i have posted on my LHR and electrolysis,i just needed to get this out.

over the past few months i must of tryed all the types of hair removal under the sun, first it was shaving - lasts for like a day, waxing - i liked the look after but i just dont like waiting for the hair to grow to at least 1cm before i can go back.
LHR works abit for me but alot of my hair is fine and isnt being affected and its so frustrating having to wait 3 weeks to see if the treatment is affective and then after the 3 weeks i see its not and get upset because i spent all this money and im seeing nothing and the the company i go to say this is what normally happen.
the i decided to go with electroylsis which at this rate is going to take for ever, she uses a apilus senior II but it seems like with a few days its back to normal again and because i work during the day and she only work till 6 i can only go like twice a week for an hour each.

because of the mixed results i dont know which method to stick with. i know its a long process but i hate the feeling of having all this hair.

im 20 and a have more hair on my back than my friends have on the chest and some of them dont even have chest hair yet!

i hate it, i just dont feel like doing anything, non of them know im this hair as i dont take off my shirt infront of them or go anywhere where i need to e.g GYM, swimming etc
i dont even stop over at there houses after a night out!!

i went through stages where i couldnt sleep because all i could think about was my back hair!

then i think to the future, if my back hair is bad now wonder how bad its going to be when im in my 40s,i feel like the most unluckest man in the world!

i dont want a relationship because i dont want anyone to know incase they grossed out.

sorry for the little sob story i just needed to get it out!

thanks

#2

Hi:

It may be better for you in the long run
to see a therapist to get over feeling this badly about
your body hair. The thing is that your body hair is
probably genetic and will get thicker or more of it as
you get older and therefore you’d be fighting a losing
battle trying to remove it

There are some women who are extremely attracted to men
with body hair, so they would be happy with your hair.

Alicia

#3

123scottish, I also know quite a few men with very hair backs and bodies and they are married to beautiful women and have children, but I say this and don’t mean to diminish your feelings about it. I am a girl and I have a hair problem that most people would just just say to me “get over it”, but it really bothers me a lot. Just realize that you are very special and hairy guys and super sexy. Try your hardest to look at the hair in a different way.

Heather

#4

I feel the same way. Plus it’s worse for me because I’m a girl.

#5

I see me in your frustration. I was never comfortable with my body hair. I never wore shorts and certainly never took off my shirt. The struggle continued until I discovered laser hair removal almost three years ago. I started with my back, chest, stomach and buttocks. I was religious about keeping my appointments and the result have been fantastic. As a result, I started going to the gym and working out and I have never looked better or felt better. This past Summer I wore tank tops and shorts and for the first time was not embarrased or self conscious. My new found freedom has done wonders for my social life. Unfortunately, I am twice your age and wasted too many years. Don’t give up and be discouraged. Please give it time. You are young and have a lot of life ahead of you. I went into this laser hair removal thinking it was going to be a quick fix. Well, it is not. If you stick with it, you’ll have success.