Thanks for your encouragement about shaving, Mellie. It’s good to hear that you’ve made a decision and are taking a firm course of action.
I went to eletrolysis tonight (Wednesday). The last time I went before that was Saturday. I really tried not to tweeze and use the nail scissors instead. I think I plucked maybe 6 - 8 hairs in total, so I did pretty good compared to my old ways. I’m scheduled to go again on Saturday. In addition to trying not to pluck and using the nail scissors more, I usually don’t do anything Friday night or Saturday morning so my hair is grown out more by then.
I have a question about when you first started to shave since you mentioned that you tweezed heavily beforehand.
My skin is really damaged from 30 years of tweezing and 17 years of electrolysis. Isn’t it harder to shave damaged bumpy skin with scars, peeling skin and little scabs? How can you get a smooth shave that way?
I guess I’m just so worried that my problem is going to get worse if I shave. (I just can’t bear to let that happen. It would just be so devastating to me.) I know everyone says this isn’t the case, but I also hear of people who have shaved every day and their problem has also become way worse over the years.
Continuing the story about our grandmothers growing beards in the hospital, one of my sisters is a social worker at a hospital. She said at one of their weekly meetings they were discussing what to do about the elderly female patients who were growing beards. Some of the other patients had complained. It seems that family members weren’t going to shave them and the social workers wondered if they should mention it to the nurses and have them do it. I forgot to ask my sister what they decided to do about this.
I asked my electrologist if she had ever treated anyone in the hospital and she said she had in the past. I guess the equipment is portable, although a remote visit in the hospital would probably be very expensive.
Neily