im confused about body hair removal! help please

im so confused everyone. I dont know what to do, im getting married soon and i dont know what to do about my vellus dark hair and my coarse hair!

its all over my body, and i dont have a medical condition.

how can i be hair free all the time?

how do you guys go about your waxing/shaving/etc routine???

These temporary measures are helpful, but are a pain to do and they can cause the problem to get worse. They can affect your skin condition in a not so pleasant way. For full body removal with waxing, you should just go to a professional. I would not wax any facial hair if I were you unless you know that you will be getting electrolysis in the very new future. Shaving can be helpful if the hair is vellus hair and an advantage of shaving is it is cheap to do will not affect future hair growth like any kind of the pulling methods (waxing, tweezing, sugaring, threading).Disadvantages of shaving is stubbly feeling. Bleaching can buy you some time. There are no easy answers for you. Many women have their body hair waxed, but they usually end having to visit the salon every 3-6 weeks for the rest of their life.