I would LOVE a womans opinion.

Hi:

I don’t think there is any escaping from being labelled vain if you care about your appearance more than the average man. Also men who bodybuild are often labelled vain since the images of men flexing in mirrors at the gym are
what comes to mind.

Unfortunately you can’t escape ignorant attitudes, or people who don’t have their own lives,
so they care too much about what you are doing with yours.

You need to say to yourself:
This is who I am.
I like myself.
I like who I am.
I am not going to worry about what some ignorant person thinks, because I am proud of who I am.

Alicia