Hi, my first post here although ive been reading alot, Ive never shared my story before so this is a huge step for me, however im at a point where i dont know what else to do. Since my teens i have struggled with excess hair, i have very dark hair on my head and pale skin so hair is naturally more visible. I am now in my 20s and since coming off birth control it has gotten steadily worse, I have had tests and scans which found some cysts on my ovaries, however my hormones are completely within normal female ranges.
The facial hair is the only part i struggle with, it is fine and soft but long and dark so very noticable, i have this on my sideburn and lower cheek areas, chin and upper lip. I have never touched the sides of my face and have only trimmed my chin with scissors, so this is all virgin hair. My upper lip i understand will be more of a problem as i regurlarly (a few times a week) pluck the dark hairs on the outer part. After searching hair removal methods extensively i have decided to begin my electrolysis journey, however i am terrified (not of the pain, im fine with that.) Im terrified it wont work, or worse that it will make the problem worse somehow, which leads me to my first question, I understand that due to the growing phases of hairs some will need treating more than once, if this is the case for these soft hairs will the first treatment cause them to grow back stubbly? I am terrified of this and genuinely dont think i can cope with stubbly hairs (I suffer anxiety/depression and genuinely sometimes feel suicidal over this.)
Also i understand that its impossible to say how long this would take, but if i started with one hour treatments once a week for awhile would this be enough to get a good start on the situation?
Finally (I have tons more questions but this post is getting so long i will ask them later!) can anyone advise me on finding a good electrologist in the uk? Im using the BIAE to get an idea of where to start and will meet a few, however the majority seem to be beauty salon type places, is this something to avoid? I wish i lived in the US as i dream of finding someone with the knowledge and passion i see on here, if any of you hairtell pros are ever considering an extended holiday to the uk please let me know!!
Thank you for reading such a long post, i understand pictures are helpful, however its a huge step for me to even talk about this so i cant face posting pictures on top today, however if any of the experts would be kind enough/interested in seeing them i could message some.
Thank you again.