ok i am 18 years old and i have hair in my lower back and butt i here to ask you guys for some help does anyone know a chep way of perminant hair removal something that realy works please help me its so emberasing thanks
how can you check if you have hormonal imbalance is there something you can buy test yourself or do you have to go to the doctor i realy dont want to go to the doctor
Get a copy of The Diet Cure by Julia Ross. There are question tests in the book that you can grade for yourself to rate your possibility for imbalance, and some solutions for some imbalances. Additionally, you may want to make sure that you are getting enough water and salt in your daily intake to allow the body to keep healthy and hydrated.
is this drinking more watter and eating salty food realy going to help my hair problem <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Are you male or female?
male
There are more imbalances that cause women problems, but men have them too.
As for the water and salt intake, you are best off with sea salt, not iodized table salt. The reasons for it helping are hard to distill here, but if you like reading, you can find the answers.
I suggest trimming it with clippers and see if that looks OK. If not, you might try waxing, but that requires a lot of scrubbing after to avoid ingrown hairs. If you have light skin and dark hair, you might try laser. Otherwise, try electrolysis. Plenty of males have hair in those areas, so it’s not a big deal, but some people do decide to remove it.
hello i would trim the hair but its too thick so i think it would be prickly i bought a epilator but that doesn’t really work for me because my hair root is too thick and hurts alot and sometimes starts bleeding
skinst-
I know exactly what you’re going through. I started getting hair on those same areas at your age. I am now 34yr old.
A little advice from the mistakes I made when it started bothering me at your age.
-Hair on your butt, don’t use nair, don’t epilate, don’t shave it…possibly trim with clippers but it may be prickly and it will grow back. Just leave it alone for now. No one sees your butt for any long period of time anyway. It’s covered by clothes unless you spend alot of time at the nude beach. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
-Hair on your lower back, totally normal, I used to be self conscious when I was 18 and other guys didn’t have any hair on their lower back/butt. What I found was I had just started growing hair a bit earlier than the rest of the guys. Most men by the age of 25 have some hair growing on their lower back or even butt.
You’re not alone. Many guys with hairy butts, backs, and other areas as well. Your smooth skinned friends are just not as hairy right now. Many of them will catch up and be even more hairy than you.
I would wait it out a few years before trying to laser or electrolysis. Save up your money for future treatments. It really isn’t a big deal, I know it feels like it now, it will get better and easier to accept it. If other guys give you crap ask them why they’re looking at your butt anyway. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
the problem is not what the guys say its about the girls not many girls like guys with hair in those areas…
How do you know what the girls like?
Besides, they will be seeing you scantally clad right away? Keep your shirt on for awhile.
Take it from someone who is female, is heterosexual, knows what most women like, your hairy lower back is not a big deal to us. How you treat us is a bigger deal.
Speak with your physician and find out if the growth is normal or a result of a problem.
Arlene does have a point.
Let me put it another way. If you were planning to go on a date and had a huge zit on the tip of your nose( I mean a major Rudolph the Reindeer zit)how would you deal with it so the date went well?
1-Cancel the date and never know what might have been?
2-Try to cover it with makeup from Mom’s supply?
3-Go on the date and be extremely conscious of that zit, constantly trying to shield it with your hand or try not to ever look the girl straight on?
4-Go on the date, make a joke that you were so excited to go out with this girl that your nose is glowing, and have fun?
Confidence skinst, it’s the key. The girl may realize everything else great about you and overlook a minor flaw. Or she may laugh because she is so worried about one of her flaws. Or she may not even look at that zit as a flaw. Or…she may be so repulsed that she doesn’t want to go out at all.(Not all dates are winners) <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
I’m 34, married 8 yrs, and still am not totally sure what women like. It seems to change quite often <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> One thing for SURE= Confidence in yourself will go over good everytime.
I will offer here as well, that I had a 2 year relationship with a model. Needless to say, she could replace me any time she wanted with the Disneyland Line of guys waiting their turn for a date with her. She found it strange that I was a hair removal professional but had not had all over hair removal myself. (I did not, as other than when I am in Hawaii, no one ever sees more than my head and hands anyway.) She expressed a desire for me to remove certain hairs that I was really uninterested in having removed (to say nothing of having no time to remove them, and no practitioner close by that I would allow to work on me) and although she did mention it every now and then, we still managed a 2 year relationship and even discussed marriage. We are still friends.
Long Story Short, the winners are going to look past little things like that to get to know you. Scorn from the “losers” only serves to show that a person you would have a horrible relationship with doesn’t want to inflict you with their poisonous type of relationship. Think of things like this as your “filtration” or screening device. Only people of substance will be left to try to get closer. (Although some people think I am cute, no one would accuse me of being a male model or gym bunny. She could have only been there for my great personality and the companionship that we shared.)
I agree. Hair on these areas is VERY common on men. You won’t see it in magazines, but I would bet half your friends have it too. Girls don’t think it’s a big deal. The type of girl who you would want to be with won’t. You should concentrate instead of your personality and confidence level and how you treat the women in your life. If you want the hair gone regardless and cheaply, it would be with temporary methods only. Once you’re older and have money, and are willing to commit considerable time into the process, you can consider permanent removal.