I’ve read so many posts on here about people’s insecurities about developing close relationships out of fear that their hair will be offputting or something, so I thought I’d lend some words of encouragement.
I have thick dark hair from head to toe, especially on my stomach, back, arms, and face. I don’t mind any of it really except on the face (which I’m getting laser and electrolysis for), but it IS excessive and far more than the average female will ever experience. I had a fairly serious boyfriend until quite recently (forced apart by distance) who was honestly out of my league in more ways than one, and he honestly couldn’t have cared less. Judging on looks he could really have the girl of his pick, and I’m no Miss America, so remember there are plenty of people who just will not care, the same way that I wouldn’t care if I was dating a werewolf as long as he was a decent guy.
And guys who are insecure about their hair, if it helps to hear it, if I had a hairy guy, I wouldn’t wish away the hair even if I could, it is no less attractive to me than no hair at all. After all, it’s JUST HAIR. I do empathise with the emotional struggles, the hair on my face drives me crazy, but if you lighten up and joke about it, you’ll end up feeling a lot better, I promise.
This forum is excellent by the way.