I have a really bad hair problem. Yes, I’m female (my name might make it hard to tell). It’s probably from the fact I’m Armenian. Yay, for genetics! I have thick hair just about everywhere, toes, legs, arms, nipples, stomache, lower back, butt.
Warning: this paragraph a lot of background/personal problems related to hair, you can skip it if you like. I just wanted to hear any commentary if anyone wanted to give any.
Anyways, this hair issue is keeping me from dating long term. I mean I will keep up with upkeep for a while, then get tired of it so I’ll be forced to break up with someone. I remember one time a guy (tried to ask nicely too, which made it worse) why I didn’t shave my butt… I get hit on quite a bit, but I feel like I live a lie. Cuz without a lot of makeup (hiding my mustache area) and a lot of shaving through out my body I’d look like an ogre. My hair problem is keeping me from doing a lot of things I want to, like going away to college (20 years old, did a year at community college), because I’m scared of roommates seeing my problem. It’s kind of sad to say any suicidal thought’s I went through were hair related. Not wanting to go out, not dating, not being able to follow any of my dreams cuz one thing was holding me back, just simple things like going to the beach with my friends. I’m just tired of being alone, but even if anyone were to accept me, I would never be able to feel completely comfortable around them cuz of the hair. Dating or not, severe hair growth impacts so many aspects of one’s life. I recently found a job at an upscale lingerie store downtown, and it sucks the amount of effort it takes for me to be presentable at this job. It’s also kind of depressing to help people try on corsets and lingerie, see how hairless they are and just help them out in complete jealousy. I’m not even a jealous person by nature, but everywhere I go I stare at people’s arms and realize there’s only ever rarely do I see someone hairier then myself.
So, I finally went into a laser consultation. I’ve thought about it for a long time, but couldn’t afford it, because I was having a hard time finding a job. Half my paycheck from my job will probably be going towards laser for months, so I need treatments that will work. So, I went in the first place I scheduled a consult for. Apparently, I’m a skin type IV, so she used the GentleYag on me. The settings used were 18 mm, 24 jcw, 10 ms, something about 40/20, I had her write down the settings for me. It didn’t hurt at all, so I assume I was very undertreated… She did a test spot on my arms, where I had completely shaved. She also did some near my ankles, I had shaved a few days earlier, so some hairs were popping out already and she laser around that area. The hairs she laser didn’t pop out or anything. Anyways it’s been two days since my consult and the the short hairs that got lasered didn’t pop out or anythign… I have really thick/dark hair so I would think it would just be slding out. This is one of the more affordable laser places that uses a GentleYag and it got some good reviews online on another hair forum… I don’t know htough, for how thick my hair is, I feel like I should have been near tears with the laser.