Hi all,
Apologies if this topic has been previously covered, but I’m beginning to debate wether my electrolysis provider’s interests are aligned with mine, and need advice on how to proceed.
We have been targeting sparse, dark hairs in the upper lip area, in three facial moles, and around the areola. I’ve received 15 monthly thermolysis treatments of 15 min each. Despite achieving complete clearance at each, the regrowth rate is essentially the same as that i experienced prior to beginning electrolysis, when i was plucking the same areas. Prior to starting electrolysis, I grew out the hair in these areas for six months (thanks pandemic masking!), so i also felt like i have a good sense of the pre-existing growth. I do regret, however, not taking pictures to document the progress.
I received the first five electrolysis treatments with one aesthetician, but she would always tell me i just needed “just one more session” (setting unrealistic goals), and berate me for trimming the hair between sessions. She insisted that by trimming the hair I was increasing re-growth and was responsible for requiring more treatments. I didn’t trim the hair too short for her to get a grip on it - a complain i would have understood - but she was convinced that trimming the hair “provided more oxygen for growth”. I didn’t want to keep seeing someone who understood her profession so poorly, so switched to another provider.
My current aesthetician certainly appears to understand her work, definitely understands that i need to trim my mustache between sessions, and quickly achieves complete clearance at each session… however, a year into working with her i’m still not seeing reduced re-growth. Part of the problem could be that she’s not treating each follicle with enough power - I do sometimes feel a tug when the hair is removed, but I try to express this when it happens, and it’s certainly not the case with every pull.
During this same period i’ve had incredible success with laser hair removal on larger areas (full legs, underarm, bikini), and now it’s probably only the sunk cost fallacy keeping me returning to the electrolysist.
I don’t think it’s irrelevant that it’s in an electrolysis’s financial interest to keep clients coming back indefinitely. Even if a provider has the best intentions, this must be a difficult reality to ignore, and given the pandemic-related reduction in business, along with rapidly increasing costs in this high COL city… I don’t know.
Any input would be much appreciated. I’m in LA and would be happy to share provider info by private message.