Hi everyone! I am happy that I found this place!
I am a 30 year old Transwoman from Cologne, Germany and I am into electrolysis since 192 hours, mostly thermolysis(flash), since about 20 month.
My electrologist has 10 years of experience with electrolysis and also with the special treatment of transpersons. She uses a sinusblend and we started with blend but after a while she mentioned that there was an update for the thermolysis modality so we tried that and I found it to be less painful and of course it’s nice that it is so fast
She works in a dermatologist office and the whole equipment and her treatment seems fine and professional to me. I also never tried somenone else because here in Germany epilation is covered by public healthcare and it is quite tough to get their permission for a regular cosmetic studio.
My concern is that I feel I am not near to halfway done. My starting point was unfortunate, but as I read the posts of you guys here, my impression is that the regrowth rate is to high. She is absolutely dismisse when I ask her about how long it will take. She always states you know you had a whole bunch of facial hair. I always took that for granted but of course the longer my transition moves on, the more I am suffering from my facial hair. I succeded voice therapy long time ago, had FFS and would say I pass pretty well, but these hair destroys everything.
I still have a strong shadow around the mustache area despite she cleaned that place for dozens of time. We still did not make it to the neck. And when I ask her when she thinks will the the first clearance be, she says oh girl that will take time.
She almost never finishes someone under 300 hours.
I mean is this whole procedure now suddenly speeding up or will it take like 500 hours…
I am really desperate and cry almost everyday.
What would you reccomend me to do? I wrote a mail to Beate Ritzert, which would be a 3 hour train ride but I would do it immediatly, if she’d be availabe.
Could you reccomend anyone else in the area? Should I stay with her?
It especially hurts to read that someone like Bono never exeeded 100 hours for a complete beard.
I feel so uneccesary tortured.
Thank you so much, love from Germany!