Hi, I am a MTF TS. When I put my hair up in a pony tail, you can see at the nape of my neck, under my hairline on the back of my neck, a whole bunch of short digusting hairs, about a few inches long, but not long enough to put in a pony tail, despite the fact I have had very long hair for over a decade.
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I have a lot of these short hairs in clusters, so you can’t just ignore them. I think these hairs are the ones that get caught up in necklaces when I wear them, making the necklace hard to remove without scissors.
Is this normal? Do genetic females have this too?
When I was boy in school, the barber used to just shave that off when I got a haircut.
Thanks. I feel stupid, since being brought up as boys, T people (at least me) tend not to notice this thing, until we start wearing ponytails or the like oursleves. So I happen to be pretty clueless is some areas! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Like do genetic females wear their jewelry to bed or in the shower? Do they wear a bra when sleeping or under their slips (if they wear one)? It’s questions like this that seem to be strange, but are just part of a normal girl’s upbringing that TS people don’t experience.
many genetic females have that neck hair and more, i personally just get mine waxed off (it hurts but if very worth it). As to the bra- no, never to bed too uncomfortable, yes under a slip unless the slip has a built in bra or if you are VERY perky, and the jewlry depends on the peice and the woman. Almost all the things you asked about I think will come to you intuetivly in time.
Thanks so much waax! Personally, I try to take off all jewelry before sleeping, and definitely before showering. Earrings and the like would be too uncomfortble sleeping. Plus I wear cheaper costume jewelry, where the gold or silver fades easily if it gets wet a lot!
I see a lot of pics of women on the web or TV where they wear jewelry while showering or sleeping though, or even swimming, so that’s what got me thinking.
<< As to the bra- no, never to bed too uncomfortable, yes under a slip unless the slip has a built in bra or if you are VERY perky >>
So are you saying if you are very perky you you don’t need to wear a bra under a slip? It would seem to me that if you are perky, then it would almost be mandatory, no? Or am I not seeing this right?
Also, the reason I asked about a bra under a slip, although not wearing one now seems bizarre to me now, was when I first transtioned and even later, I noticed a lot of full slips or camisoles had decorative lace on the top, like a bra. So it seemed redundant to have both a bra and a slip/camisole with lace, where the slip/camisole actually covered up the decorative lace on the bra!
Of course, I didn’t (and still don’t) have large breasts, especially in relation to my large torso/upper body (rib cage), that I often did not need to wear a bra for support (although I did have to to cover myself if I got too “perky”). <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
And I had thought I had seen a lot of movies where women were shown NOT wearing a bra under their full slip. And this was not the type of slip that had a built-in bra. I don’t know.
Sorry to have gotten off-topic and to be rambling.