Hello everyone, after a few months of being a silent user, today I decided to ask you for some advice.
In advance, I would like to apologize for any spelling mistakes I might make, since English isn’t my first language.
I have struggled with body and facial hair for as long as I can remember, but out of everything, what bothered me the most, were my sideburns.
After spending a few months of searching the best way to remove them, I found out about laser hair removal. Although I spent a while searching for the pros and cons about it, unfortunately, when it’s searched in Portuguese, there’s no trace about the possibility of induced hair growth and how facial and neck areas should never be touched by laser, due to being an area the hormones play a huge role.
So a year later of searching to what I thought was enough about laser, and although hesitant, I decided in June 2017, to have my first session. After having a few, with only one month spaced in between, I thought I was seeing good results. So I made the mistake of also starting to do underneath my chin and top half of the neck. One month spaced in between turned into two, and then two and half months. And that’s when I started noticing something was wrong. After having 8 laser sessions and a year later, not only my sideburns were almost the same size they were before, the hairs on my chin and neck grew more than the triple of the size, darker and thicker. They were never this bad, I was devastated, and since I wasn’t seeing good results, I stop having laser completely.
5 months passed by, without doing anything to the areas mentioned, I decided to give electrolysis a chance. Throughout these months, I found out about this website, learned about what happened to me with laser, and how electrolysis, when done efficiently, could actually help me to get rid of my facial hair.
So here I am, I have had 3 sessions in total, and I’m afraid my electrologist is over treating my skin. I’m someone who’s been fortunate enough to struggle with mild acne and although I’m aware skin takes time to heal whilst having electrolysis, I’m not quite sure if mine is reacting the best way possible. In almost every hair follicle treated, I get whiteheads on the next day and after a week, all the red dots barely fade away.
This last Friday, the lady told me she would have to wax my sideburns, since they were really grown out, I would be wasting money if she treated the area before with electrolysis (even though she did electrolysis on my chin and neck, and the same situation applied, but oh well). I understood and although hesitant, I said ok and I let her wax them. She then proceeded to say that I would have to come every week, so she could remove them at their best phase.
I’m now starting to regret it and I’m afraid my skin will start to look like a hot mess. In my opinion, since I have no rush, I think it would be best for my skin to take time to heal, and for now, only work on my chin and neck, and then after these areas being almost done, I would start the sideburns. What do you guys think? Are my neck and chin being over treated or I’m in a good path towards getting rid of the hair?
The first picture shows the induced hair growth by laser (5 months of growth):
The second shows how my skin looked like at night after having my first session of 37 min:
The third shows how my skin currently looks like after 4 days of having my third session:
Here’s the time of my sessions:
1st - 21/09/2018 - 37 minutes
2nd - 28/09/2018 - 23 minutes
3rd - 12/10/2018 - 24 minutes
My aftercare is washing my skin with only water and apply Bepantene in the morning and at night.
P.S- I’m so sorry for the huge text, I think I got a little carried away trying to explain everything ahah. Thank you so much in advance if you took your time to read my story and concerns, I really appreciate it.
I also forgot to mention that I’m 21, female, with fair skin, so every pimple that comes in takes a really long time for the scar to fade away.