I don’t know if this post will help anyone, but maybe you will find that you are not alone with your feelings about unwanted hair.
I’m an adult male and first began to get the feelings of “I never asked for this stuff to show up, and I wish it never did and that there was ane easy way to get rid of it” when body hair first begin to show up on me in my mid teens. (Yes, I was a bit of a late bloomer, so maybe my anti-hair feelings came from living a few more years hairless than my fellow teens). Early on, I actually shaved the offending hair, but as it began to increase in abundance, I let it go until I was into adulthood.
For the last 20+ years or so I’ve been shaving the areas I most wanted smooth, and only after discovering this wonderful forum have I started to get some professional removal treatments. Andrea has advised me that the method I found, transdermal, is very likely to not work at all, but just the fact that I got the courage to seek some professional help is a big step for me. Now, if I decide to switch to a different removal method I will be much less hesitant to discuss it with someone.
I don’t know the mental origins of why I dislike hair that is growing naturally on certain areas of my body. All I know is that I don’t want it there, and I’m happy now, at long last, to be doing something about it…thanks in large measure to a boost of courage I got from reading fellow members’ postings and Andrea’s kind, informative, understanding, and non-judgmental responses.