Advice on ingrown hairs

Hi Andrea!! I’m so happy to have found this site!
I got great advice on how to prevent ingrown hairs, but how about the ones that are ingrown already?
This may sound horrible but I can “squeeze” some of them out or take them out with a needle. But I have some that look just like a bump with the dark center (the hair), but either they are just too deep or the skin over them is too thick and I can’t get them out. Any ideas? :confused: