I have been advised that so long as the method is thermolysis (not involving galvanic), the baby should be fine as it is surface treatment. I believe that this logic makes sense, and I do not think that my baby is at risk. I could be EXTRA careful, but I do think that continuing electrolysis treatment (I started before pregnancy) and ridding my body hair which makes me happier will be better for the baby (because they receive less stress hormones).
I definitely believe that the ingrown hairs are caused by the electrolysis treatment, not the shaving. I waited a long time post healing after the treatment before shaving, and I finally decided to shave because the thighs were still so unsightly, and so removing the hair by shaving made me feel a little better. After I shaved, I realized the red bumps were ingrowns.
Still, I will not shave for several days as you all advised because I do not want to dismiss the advice you all agreed on. Before electrolysis, I would sometimes get razor bumps, but they ALWAYS disappeared after about 24 hours.
The electrologist I see now is not the same one who did the initial treatment–the new one is MUCH more skilled I believe. The previous one really believed in using A LOT of heat, which caused such a long healing time and perhaps the ingrowns?
I think I will see go to my electrologist soon so she can dislodge the ingrowns that are there.